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In Cambodia, You Are Instructed To Love Your Abuser

Prime Minister Hun Sen wants his people to adore him for not treating them as badly as he could have. 

In Cambodia, You Are Instructed To Love Your Abuser

Cambodian Prime Minister Hun Sen.

Credit: Facebook/Samdech Hun Sen, Cambodian Prime Minister

One reason why Cambodian Prime Minister Hun Sen has survived in politics for nearly four decades is that he doesn’t see any threat as too small. A wayward social media post from a random activist must not go unpunished, pour encourager les autres. But he’s no tin-pot dictator who exists through aggression alone. There is something of the sacral to Hun Sen’s rule, something that harks back to centuries past. His is an iron will to rule but with punishment and forgiveness in equal cruelty.

He’s the father who you never know is going to beat you or ruffle your hair. Like a god-king of past centuries, you’re instructed to fear and love him in equal measure – or, perhaps more accurately, you’re instructed to love him because he hasn’t beaten you as much as he could have. When the father doesn’t give you stripes from a belt, even when he can, you’re compelled to bow down and praise his mercifulness, his benevolence. At that moment, you’re taught to adore your tormentor.

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